I have found this query to be so upsetting, the question 'Why cant effeminate guys go to heaven?' It had never occurred to me that such thoughts were present in any ones mind. Is it not true that heaven embraces those that are loving and caring? What makes an effeminate guy any less loving or caring? Are there not many guys out there who think they have the perfect requisite for 'heaven entry'? It is my belief that if they think they are perfect, they are not.
The question I would put here is not 'Why can't' but 'Why Shouldn't?'